unobtrusive

in my opinion i think a sub should never seek attention. she should be quiet, sort of in the background. she should stay put, untill her Mistress requests something from her.. she should be seen and not heard in a sense, to speak when spoken to. she should not be assertive, should never be undesireably noticeable. she should always represent her Mistress in the best possible way, dress and appearance, and her disposition.